Yes, a 225 intake manifold will work on the 170 with the 170 exhaust manifold. I can go as far as to say the 170 exhast manifold is identical to the 225, I'm 99% sure the same goes for the intake. The heads are the same, as you have been told.
The reason why they 225 headers do not work on 170's is because, as memike stated, the block is an inch taller to accomodate the extra inch of stroke. So why can a 225 exhaust manifold work on a 170 but the same isn't true for headers? Simple, headers or exhaust manifold, which one take up more room? Which one has more clearance issues in regards to the starter, steering colum and steering box, frame rails, a/c system, maybe even brake boosters?
Your answer is headers.