well had mine done last Tuesday, rotator and labrum, part of my rotator tendon was in my arm. I went home the day of surgery they did a nerve block in my shoulder I could feel nothing in my left arm, but could move fingers.
when the block wore off 24hrs later extreme PAIN!! I had taken the med's to build up the hours before as prescribed. They did nothing!! Had to call doctor to get a different script to deal with the pain 5mg oxycodone instant release did nothing.
I got 10mg hyrdocodone and it did the trick. i took 2 pills EVERY 3-4 hours for the first couple days and then I went 1 pill every 3 hours through Saturday. I finally got more then 30min to an hours sleep in a row sat night. Been working on slow stretching my elbow straight for the last couple days
today i can stretch my arm at the elbow without much pain. And have gone 6 hours without pain meds. Still not much I can do. I did take a shower yesterday without her help. Yes wiping butt can be a daunting task and fortunately the pain meds have taken its toll on that issue for the most part lol. I can not move shoulder at all either raising it up or moving it sideways.
what can be done on a car as of now - is look at one. I couldn't even buy one as I can not really write or sign my name yet. You don't really know what a shoulder does until you don't have one. I can type with my right arm though lol.