moparmat2000
Well-Known Member
got a bit of a problem. one of my step kids i always seem to catch her twisting my words to her mother, or lying , only telling the parts of the story that she wants mom to hear., etc. my wife tells me i dont like her kid, i tell my wife i dont like her kids behavior. its gotten to where i want to be around this kid as little as possible because i am going to end up usually on a losing end with my wife over "whatever" this kid is 8 i dont know if i got 10 more years of this kinda mind game **** left in me.
i tell my wife whenever **** happens i tell the truth right, wrong, or indifferent . i dont candy coat anything. but then i got a little spin doctor who uses every little thing as a blow up stir the **** pot sort of thing just to create drama i guess. then the little bugger wants to go with me when i go to lowes, home depot or any other errands, and i say NO because i dont want to deal with anymore ****. then i get from my wife, she wants to go with you to wherever and you always say no. why do you do that?? how in the hell do you respond to that.
i stay later at work to lessen the chances of any confrontation , since i will always be concidered the one at fault. i'm thinking i need to just use my phone to record every interaction with this kid, and play it back for my wife if theres a problem, let her figure it out.
tired of the bullshit.
Matt
i tell my wife whenever **** happens i tell the truth right, wrong, or indifferent . i dont candy coat anything. but then i got a little spin doctor who uses every little thing as a blow up stir the **** pot sort of thing just to create drama i guess. then the little bugger wants to go with me when i go to lowes, home depot or any other errands, and i say NO because i dont want to deal with anymore ****. then i get from my wife, she wants to go with you to wherever and you always say no. why do you do that?? how in the hell do you respond to that.
i stay later at work to lessen the chances of any confrontation , since i will always be concidered the one at fault. i'm thinking i need to just use my phone to record every interaction with this kid, and play it back for my wife if theres a problem, let her figure it out.
tired of the bullshit.
Matt