Go ahead and build your stroker and externally balance it with components for a different combination.
I got a quote for $75, no mallory if I hand him 1 balanced rod assembly with the piston pack not mounted. That way he could weigh the rod big end, and the piston pack. This was only for the crank balance, nothing more. I balanced all the other stuff to itself and the balancer was already neutral so everything was the same for his bobweight. My crank had a factory bobweight target of 2050g and my stuff measured on my jerry-rig was about 2020g so I should come in under weight. IIRC you can't balance a fluid type damper so Ill just run with the factory neutral balance of it.