Dude, I have five teenage daughters and a good sixth sense about girls in general.
I can usually have them figured out by a passing glance.
First impressions are everything, and usually bring out the true colors of a person rather than listening to their fake b/s in an actual conversation.
I can feel out my daughters "friends" from the start.
Is this girl you like the same one that was asking guys to beat you up?
If so, why are you wasting your time with that trouble maker?
I agree with Memike, find the girl that finds you.
As a multi female dad, I know all the tricks in the book, and have my daughters trained pretty well on how to spot the bullshitters from the genuine nice guys.
I just had to put my oldest daughter's jackass boyfriend in his place the other night.
I came about an inch of literally breaking his neck until I came to my senses and let him go.
Keep in mind that any good father will literally kill or mame to protect his little girls.
Now keeping those little girls from being little vixens is another battle, and they are all wired differently.
If I had to do it over again, I would not change a thing since I married my 11'th grade sweetheart.
She had/ has a great head on her shoulders, takes zero crap from anybody, always had/ has a ten year goal, and knows how to make a nickel go as far as possible.
Healthy, drop dead gorgeous, and straightened my pathetic *** up a long time ago.
Take my advice, if you can find a girl that is willing to break up with you for drinking and doing stupid things and wants you to ditch your idiot friends because they are dragging you down, by all means listen to her and ditch those idiots because she know's what she's talking about.
I did just that, and now half of those guys are either dead, in jail, or married to big, fat , pathetic, drugged out rough looking women that are 20 years older than them, they are working for under ten bucks an hour if they have a job at all.
Stay away from the girls that get all bent out of shape about valentines day and crap like spending all kinds of stupid money on shiney things that depreciate and sparkle that they can dangle from their ears and hang around their neck and slip over their fingers.
It is hard to find a smart, low maintenance, frugal, straight shooting, beautiful asskickin babe, but they are out there.