Felpro perma torque head gaskets are inexpensive, and around .045-.05 thick. Don't use any sealer on them, just clean the metal surfaces with brake clean and install the gasket. For the $13 price maybe try one with playdo on top of the piston. Wipe a little WD40 on the top of the playdo so it won't stick to the cyl head. Torque the head down and turn the engine over slowly by hand...don't use the starter. The thickness of the playdo will tell you piston to cyl head clearance. .040 inch would be great, plus minus a little is still ok.
If I remember right MRL used around .035 on one of their small block engines and worked fine. One of my rice burners has .038 inch clearance and runs great, turns 6000+ rpm, over 40,000 miles and no issues.