1. basic issue that said deity "loves us" but deems it necessary to condemn people for hell for nothing more than thoughts otherwise...that's petty and psychotic
2.basis for building the beliefs are based nothing except stories(not back by any facts or evidence)
3. On top that, according to the beliefs, almost nothing else matters. Murder people? torture people? molest kids? All forgivable. Rational thought? tortured forever.
4. The belief(that is horrifically taught to children) that we are all vile, bad, disgusting creatures in need of saving. No one should be taught they are not good from the start.
5. Oh and worshiping the torture and death of another human being.(even if no evidence suggest that said being was ever a real person)
I think you raise some good points, but let's look at it this way.
(The numbers are based off the statements above). Giving the limited space, I tried to keep these simple and direct.
1. I'm a parent. As I parent, I try to teach my children the skills and attitudes to make it through life. I also teach them values. However, since they are human, they will make mistakes. They will sometimes choose to follow or not follow our rules and expectations. As a good parent, it is my responsibility to hold them accountable for their actions. Interpret that as "punishment" if you will. That doesn't mean I don't love them. That means I love them enough to direct them in the direction they need to go no matter the consequences. Unfortunately, I will not be able to protect them from their own actions. That is their free will. They murder- they will pay consequences. They steal, they will pay consequences. It isn't a reflection of my love not to "bail them out." I will love them no matter what. Sometimes that love will cause me to hurt when they do wrong. God provides direction and a way to redemption. Those are the rules and expectations. Everyone has a free will to follow or not follow those rules. Choosing another path (to death as we believe) is just that, a choice. Trying to make excuses not to follow the rules doesn't make the rule wrong.... Calling Christianity petty or what you want doesn't make it true- it is just your opinion.. we can accept you have one of those.
2. Hmm.. history books are full of stories. Just because we weren't there and witness it for ourselves doesn't mean it didn't happen. Most of science's theories (and they are theories because we weren't there) of the creation of the universe is based off left behind evidence. The stories in the Bible are our evidence. Remember, these are letters, diaries, historical recordings, etc. all collected from different people at different places. These have been put together in a book to emphasize the history and commonality of those accounts. History buffs marvel how the stories still match up. To the Christian, that is more evidence that proves that the situations did occur.
3. Forgiving is not forgetting or trusting again.. There are people locked in jail for murder that are forgiven by the families, but they do understand there are still consequences to those actions. Forgiveness comes from the heart and most of the time does not benefit the one that commits the action. It is letting go of something that separates you from the peace that God can provide. We can't forgive if we don't have the willingness and power provided to us to forgive. Jesus, being perfect, can provide that power- power that alone we may never be able to imagine. He is our example. His ways are past our own understanding.
4. Children are not taught they are not good. They are taught they are sinners. There are people on this earth that do good things every day. However, those people still do bad things on occasion (some of us more than others). We are all sinners. Dates back to the original example of Adam and Eve being told to do one thing and breaking that trust and doing something else. Children need to know they are not perfect and need to know that they are loved anyways. That is the teaching. They need to know forgiveness and love- sometimes a forgiveness that only a perfect entity can provide (because we as humans fail at it all the time). Proper parenting will teach children that they WILL disappoint, they WILL make mistakes (I don't know anyone who hasn't). Even though you will screw up, you are loved anyways whether you accept that love or not.
5. I don't worship torture. The killing of my savior was horrific, but it also demonstrates what a true savior will do for his people. I respect and I love the Christ that laid down his life to save my soul. The focus on the death of Christ (and most importantly of His Rising) emphasizes and reminds me personally that I could never accomplish what He did for us. It reminds me of my shortcomings but also encourages me to strive harder in my life here on earth so I can be that light to a very selfish world in which we live. It reminds me of a gift that I can never repay and I just must accept as is.
I look at it this way. Think of me for a moment as a starving individual. Then someone gives me a box- we will call it a gift because I didn't ask or pay for it- it was just offered to me. That gift is food to my body that would keep me from dying... I can choose two directions- accept the gift and live, or ignore the gift and die. That is my choice. For those of us that accept the gift that God has provided to us- the life of his Son, a perfect individual that paid the price for our sins, we know we can never "pay that back" in the same way because we aren't perfect and we are sinners. We have to accept it. It isn't God's fault, or Jesus' fault if we don't.
I have been told I was an idiot for believing in Christ. That is fine, that is an opinion. But, I'm not placed on this earth to please you. Really, I would much rather believe in Him and live my life to try to reflect His love and compassion to those around me and make this world just a little more pleasant. Who knows, if I am wrong and their isn't anything else past this life, well, maybe I brought a little more happiness to this world before I left it... but if I am right, and their is more, I don't want to be one of those that is left being told, "I provided you a way and you should have accepted my gift."