Its a freakin scam, just like when Quicken loans was advertising interest only mortgages years ago before the bottom fell out of the real estate market. I actually called them, and told them what they were doing was extremely deceptive to people who are financially inept. About 6 months after that phone call, the housing market crashed.
In a marriage at least 1 person has to be the fiscally responsible financial CEO. My wife and i have friends where both people are dummies when it comes to money and they are always having issues.
My wife is all too happy to let me handle it. Bills get payed, leftovers go into savings. This allows us to have a little surplus to draw on if we need it. In my mind its out of sight, out of mind.
But back to the original topic. Reverse mortgages may be good if you have no living relatives to will your property to, and if you dont have a pension, or a good sizable 401K to draw on. Social security has been pilfered badly so you cant count on that being around forever. However if you have family to will your property to , and a decent 401K or pension to live off of, then reverse mortgages make little sense.