WOO!! WOO!!
First year can be tough.
I am no expert, but with deployments, some things for me seemed exasperated.
Take this with a grain of salt, or not, no biggie.:
Be patient, always listen, somethings that you do now might not be so kosher later (idiosyncrasies) -so try to be open to changing small things about yourself to smooth over everyday life, on the other hand, it has been said that you might change as many as 3 things of your spouse, if you push the limits, so don't try to change who she is, small tokens of affections are like small bank deposits of love-some times you might make a giant withdraw-keep enough positive equity in your lover's heart, often men will want to SOLVE the problems that they hear their ladies tell them-quite often ladies vent or just talk ONLY WANTING SOMEONE TO LISTEN-NOT SOLVE,
There seems to be three things that are most important, love, communication, and problem (between you two) solving abilities. Try to ensure that the last two things fully function correctly.
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS BROTHER MAN!!