A good read. I made it a point when my kids were growing up that I would not demean or be critical of them. I encouraged whatever interests they had. I also made known that they were expected to contribute. Around the house, yard work and for the community as a whole. Computer games - sure, after our work was done. My son just graduated with a degree in mathematics, my daughter is presently studying at a bible college.
I won't bore you with all the stuff I could say about them. I will relay one short story regarding my son. We always made it a point to go to the local "friends of the library" book sales, where old books are sold for funds going towards new books. My son would often buy old math textbooks. One night when he was in college he called me all excited. Dad, he says, you probably don't remember this particular textbook I bought one year at the library sale - but I gave about 50 cents for this textbook... I just found out that it is some rare, out of print and highly sought after book that is worth about a hundred bucks!
As for cars, he did help me restore my old '67 Firebird, ground up. He was 14 when we started and 19 when we finished. I gave it to him.
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