Slantsix64
Well-Known Member
This is why I don't help people anymore.
Nope.What the hell is this? You just chiming in to play Devil's advocate?
Are you the type of guy that uses people under the guise of "Friendship" ?
Would you be okay with feeling used after 5 1/2 hours of doing most of the work on someone else's car?
Nope.
But when I offer to help, I either give the help freely...or state my terms for the help I give.
I expect others to do the same when I ask for their help.
I generally give people who help me more than they ask...but that’s a choice. I never expect the same when I offer free help or state my terms.
Feeling “used” means you didn’t get what you expected and up front agreement of terms eliminates that. Like I said, either give the help freely or agree on the terms in advance.
But live with what you get and don’t complain...because you decided which it should be.
You guessed wrong. I give far more than I ask for. Many members here can vouch for that.I get the feeling you don't offer very often. jmho
I think that D Daddy is related to the asshole that got me and my buddies for 5 1/2 hours that day.
Bite me. You are the one that just doesn’t get it.I think that D Daddy is related to the asshole that got me and my buddies for 5 1/2 hours that day.
You too.He just doesn't quite get the point. And then at the end he's expecting a thank you.
Bite me. You are the one that just doesn’t get it.
You got what you asked for...and are whining that you didn’t get more.
Regardless, I didn't "expect" anything from the guy BUT it was on my way home when I realized that he got a heck of a deal. It is no wonder that he barely speaks with his kids, he has NO friends other than people he uses from the car club....He isn't the kind of guy that has friends...