That sucks hard that you got screwed, it really does. I would spend several hundred myself, to recover the $75, out of principal as mentioned earlier.
But I do not see how it is wrong to send as a gift, I do it all the time. All it does is transfer the Paypal fee to the buyer, instead of the seller. Paypal still gets their crazy percentage. I had never heard of it until this place, but have done it many times.
The guy isn't far away. My junior keeps asking me when we a going to ride that way. I wont make an effort toward revenge. I just put it in the lords hands. If we do cross paths at some point, there's the sign.