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Gratis persona
Back in November I was hospitalized for it. Spent a week in the Behavioral Sciences Unit at the local hospital.
Things snowballed on me and it got out of hand. Lashed out when I shouldn't have. Still paying the price for it. Pysche doctor put me on Zoloft and I'm voluntarily in councilling.
There are days when it's no big deal. Easily managed and things are on top of the world.
Then there are times that something small is made into a big deal and it brings my world crashing down and I can be in a funk for days.
Trying to work through it to become a better husband and better father. The only thing I want my family to say about me when I die is, "he was a good man."
But when things influence the way I feel and bring me back to rock bottom it's hard to overcome and not easy to deal with.
My outlook is usually upbeat and positive. I've overcome a lot of things in my life as most of you know. But there are days when it just feels like giving up and not fighting the good fight is worth it.
There's a stigma from folks who don't have to deal with this, or understand what it's like. Those of us who deal with this aren't feeling sorry for ourselves. We just can't pull ourselves up by our boot straps and get over it. Our minds go into a funk and it stays there. It takes a lot of support and a lot of compassion to overcome the really down times.
Then there's the stigma we place on ourselves. My natural tendency is to ask myself, "why aren't I a better man?" "Get over it and move on." "Quit feeling sorry for yourself. People rely on you."
It's a war in the mind that's not easy to over come.
Things snowballed on me and it got out of hand. Lashed out when I shouldn't have. Still paying the price for it. Pysche doctor put me on Zoloft and I'm voluntarily in councilling.
There are days when it's no big deal. Easily managed and things are on top of the world.
Then there are times that something small is made into a big deal and it brings my world crashing down and I can be in a funk for days.
Trying to work through it to become a better husband and better father. The only thing I want my family to say about me when I die is, "he was a good man."
But when things influence the way I feel and bring me back to rock bottom it's hard to overcome and not easy to deal with.
My outlook is usually upbeat and positive. I've overcome a lot of things in my life as most of you know. But there are days when it just feels like giving up and not fighting the good fight is worth it.
There's a stigma from folks who don't have to deal with this, or understand what it's like. Those of us who deal with this aren't feeling sorry for ourselves. We just can't pull ourselves up by our boot straps and get over it. Our minds go into a funk and it stays there. It takes a lot of support and a lot of compassion to overcome the really down times.
Then there's the stigma we place on ourselves. My natural tendency is to ask myself, "why aren't I a better man?" "Get over it and move on." "Quit feeling sorry for yourself. People rely on you."
It's a war in the mind that's not easy to over come.