I just got back on the forum after being away for awhile to see that Dan has made an apology thread.
Dan, we all make mistakes, I make them all time. I understand the art of being picky, but sometimes you have settle for alternatives. Now something that may happen is that you may settle for something with some compromises, then maybe some amount of time later a car that a good enough car that checks all the boxes shows up. When this happens don't be mad or upset, this type of luck happens all the time. Your following choices are going to depend on your current life situation of that time. You can buy the car if your life situation allows, or you can stick with what you have. Don't be upset if have to settle with the good compromise you found and bought.