You don't know how to jumper the starter relay?
Here are "usable" diagrams from MyMopar
http://www.mymopar.com/index.php?pid=28
But you need to make SURE it's using 72 wiring, as 73's have some differences
http://www.mymopar.com/downloads/1972/72ValiantA.JPG
http://www.mymopar.com/downloads/1972/72ValiantB.JPG
But better yet you can download a complete Plymouth shop manual free right here:
http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?t=132309
Link to the 72 shop manual
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How did you check this? How do you know it's not the starter relay or the neutral safety switch?
Your starter relay should look like this, not necessarily mounted in this attitude
The key to checking operation is the two "push on" terminals.
Download the shop manual I posted and look on page 8-147, I posted part of it below:
(wiring diagram index page 8-144)
In the drawing, find the starter relay, towards bottom left, and look at the BOTTOM RIGHT terminal, wire h2-16 DGN/R. This is dark green, red stripe NOTICE that it goes up and goes into the BULKHEAD CONNECTOR. Clip your meter or lamp to this wire and see if it's hot when twisting the key to "start."
IF YES, Put your meter on the OTHER "push on" relay terminal, with wires hooked up as per normal. It does not matter which wire goes to which "push on" terminal.
Twist the key to start. If the relay does not click, you may have voltage on that terminal. If you do have voltage, it means the NEUTRAL SAFETY switch is not grounding, or if you have a stick, the CLUTCH SAFETY switch is not working.
Which do you have?
Unhook that wire, take a clip lead and ground that relay terminal. Be CERTAIN the car is out of gear and try the key. It should crank. If not, you may have a bad starter relay.
Try jumpering the starter by jumpering across the only two bare terminals (the two largest) on the relay. The starter should crank
Post back with results.
Hacking up your wiring with oddball switches is NOT the way to fix this.