.............. I tapped into the cig lighter for an after market CD player power source, took that off and the car started right up................... so if you have anything on that power source it will not work........................
I don't think you fixed it. You probably have something like a loose/ bad/ corroded connector at the bulkhead, or something broken at the fusebox, or maybe at the ammeter.
Do I understand that you lose ALL power, that is, ignition, headlights, etc?
If so, what I'd do now is turn on say, ignition to accessory, turn on the radio or heater, and lights, and get under the dash and wiggle the HELL out of the wiring. If you don't lose power, go out under the hood and wiggle the battery cables around and near the starter relay, and also near the bulkhead connector.
IF YOU ARE LOSING all power, this should be easy to find. Out in the engine area, you have the battery---could be bad!!!! (intermittent) CLEAN the battery cables.
Could be ground cable---wiggle clean, tighten
Could be hot cable, same as above
Check wiring in area of starter relay--loose, corroded. If it's original cables, those wire ends that are molded into rubber are suspect
Wiggle the wiring ESPECIALLY the big wires that go through the bulkhead connector
Get up under the dash, wiggle around the ammeter wires