On my parent’s estate, the house was put in a ladybird deed in all three of us kids’ names. We all went through and identified major items we wanted and if several of us wanted it, the negotiations started! My sister was the executor and she kept the peace between my brother and I-more so his doing than mine. All in all, it was relatively pain free but did take about a year and a half total to get through everything and then sell the house. Absolutely nothing was probated because we all agreed to be as peaceful as possible