I agree it is a teaching moment when they ask questions but when they watch you like a hawk, I can understand where I would get just as pissy as slappy.
And it was a teaching moment for you, too, but instead you decided to "school" someone else.
You were ranting that you stood and waited for quite a while as you got piss poor service and watched everyone standing around doing this and that and the other thing without even touching your tires. It was only at the end you decided to demand a manager and opened up on someone.
In all that time you stood and continued to get angrier and angrier until you blew up. To what end?
At any time you could have called someone over to get the manager so you could ask the reasonable question as to why a half dozen guys are standing around while there's paying business on the floor. It would have drawn the manager's attention to the behavior
as it was happening, not after the fact.
One of the things you might want to remember on the person's piss poor explanation on why the good tires belong on the rear: a lot of box stores don't send out for training. They want it done
before they hire. It saves them the cost, while still being able to say they have blah-blah-blah certified technicians. At the same time, some of them want the training and expect the line guy to pay for it.
Been there, done that.
I've worked for one box store in my career that actually took the time to send us out for training and certs. (Those were industry training, by the way. TIA to be specific. Anything else we paid for and they reimbursed us.) The other one expected us to pay for it and gave us our birthday off with pay for having the certs. Big deal.
Other than that, for a lot of guys, it's reading trade magazines or listening to the boss. There's not a lot of incentive to get any training or certs unless the individual has the determination to do so.
I will say this: I will never work corporate again. Most of the guys on the counter are failed wrenches at best, salesmen at the worst. The former has enough knowledge to be dangerous, the latter has no knowledge at all. Both are worthless. Now, given that, how good of an explanation is expected by someone when the boss is who I've described? It also explains why the manager was allowing this behavior while he had customers.
Did you think of any of this while you were exploding on the guy? Or are you under the assumption that since you went to a generic box store everyone was a highly trained professional? Have you worked at these stores to know what goes on behind the scenes, so to speak, to be able to place yourself in his shoes?
It's up to the person to understand what he's explaining to make sure he gets the proper training, but when the person he trusts is full of ****, then he's going to be full of ****, too.
I'm not trying to argue, I'm asking honest questions. Sometimes while you're attempting to "school" someone you haven't asked the proper questions of yourself to understand the other side. I can tell you right now, he gave this explanation because he honestly believed it as that's what he had been lead to believe.
A dumbass? Maybe. Are you dumbass for dressing him down for letting your temper get the best of you when you had the opportunity to do something about it earlier? I don't know. That's up to you to figure out.
Now on to your challenge, you do realize a RWD car with better tire on the front than rear can have the exact thing happen that you described? My challenge for you: Drive a RWD car in the rain with worn tires on the *** end and brand news on the front.
Have you read my signature? I left Sarah's Hyundai off the list because it was Sarah's. I guess I should add it now, seeing it's since become mine. I don't see a FWD on the list, do you?
The F250? I started driving that when I was 14. I'm 41 now. Do the math for how long I've been driving.
Now, ask yourself why should I take you up on your challenge?
I was addressing FWD because people seem to think that since the entire driveline is in the front, then they think that the tires with the best tread belong on the front for traction. Those people would be wrong.
Maybe I should have addressed my previous response in a different way and not "challenged" you so to speak.
Look I shouldn't have got involved in this. I apologize if I offended anyone. I believe that further intrusion from me would not be productive. Im out.
No big deal to me, Slappy and no need to apologize from what I see. I've worked with plenty of guys with the same outlook as you and I understand it.
I was simply pointing out a different perspective.