Frankie
Member #9641
Prayers on the way. Sorry to read about your troubles.
thanx everyone , i know she has not been happy for a while , even before i got hurt . I can do only whats within my power to do , i am not a quitter and am not giving up . My main concern are my kids though , life is hard enough as is never mind splitting up a family . I really appreciate everyones prayers , input and advice .
thanx everyone , i know she has not been happy for a while , even before i got hurt . I can do only whats within my power to do , i am not a quitter and am not giving up . My main concern are my kids though , life is hard enough as is never mind splitting up a family . I really appreciate everyones prayers , input and advice .
like you said the kids are the most important thing here.
sometimes a split household is better then an unhappy one.
no matter what happens the two of you need to make sure your civil to each other in front of the kids and never badmouth the other parent in front of the kids..
things will work out no matter what directions things go.
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My ex and I get along better now than when we were married...
Who'd ever thunk that...
I've been married for 32 years and with her for 36. You need to listen to her complaints and then talk them out. Marraige is a two way street. If you let your "macho" side guide you it will fail. Both sides have to give and take. One question you should ask yourself: How bad do you want the marriage to work?married 15 years , 3 kids 3,8 & 10 , i hurt my back a year ago & been outa work , 5 damaged discs & on opiates fors full year & im detoxing right now . Hoping to be back to work in a month or so , No unfaithfullness or abuse , my parents divorced when i was 4 yrs old . This is ripping me apart inside , please keep me and my family in your prayers......only God can fix this
Amen.I would like to pray this prayer for you and your family:
Lord please we ask for Your loving embrace for our family in need. Lord please touch their hearts with Your Healing hands, bring them together Your love. Embrace them let them know You are there to help them through their hardships and struggles together. Guide them to seek You Lord and ask for Your help and guidance. Help them to realize it is the hardships in life we endure as a family that are the defining moments of what makes a family. Lord in Your precious name Lord we pray-Amen
The prayer warriors of Indy are praying for your family-may God bless
I heard the Same thing over and over for a year and refused to believe it. had the check written to the lawyer to draw separation papers. left it on the table for a while. We caught a couple good "breaks" couple of old timey moments and we have turned a Huge corner . we are as far from over as possible. Don't be foolish if she is moving that way be prepared sure, but Faith by definition is walking a path that you can see in front of you or under your feet. Restoration is the name of the game on this site and a Million cash for clunker types would never understand . but if there is something between you two that is worth restoring FIX it its what we all do to the cars hereOnce the divorce word is mentioned the marriage is over. Get a good lawyer NOW!
if you can afford it rent her an apartment and get someone to move all her stuff into while she is out one day , send her to a spa weekend if you have to then move her out and change the locks . The courts will keep the kids in the family home with whichever parent is there and being that parent is the most important tool you have .