Girl wants to meet for drinks but... I don't really drink WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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67Dart273 said:
You don't HAVE to order alcoholic drinks at a bar, ya know.

But there IS an old sayin:

If you found your wife in a bar, you'll find your wife in a bar
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Great saying and so true.
That's the story of me and my ex.
We met in the bar, and for 8 years i tried as hard as i could to get her out of it. She rarely drank at home, but wanted to go to the bar 3 to 4 times a week and get just shitfaced.
That's why she's my ex.
Watch out for those party girls, and be yourself.
Take her to the bar and give her enough rope to hang herself, then you'll know what you have right there.
You will never regret it.
 
Oh, i forgot to say, my new wife drinks maybe twice a year if that, and then it's only 3 or 4 Kahlua and milks (brown cows).
They're out there, be patient........
 
Okay so if you don't wanna drink order o'dols and remember when a woman that likes cars invites you to get hammerd with her she just wants to know we're you pink slip it for your mopar. Stay thirsty my friends
 
As so many has said be yourself don't do anything you woulden't do normaly.
Maybe she is testing you.
 
Nothing wrong with meeting for a drink. That makes for a neutral, safe place for you and her to meet. As others have said, going to a place that serves alcohol, doesn't mean you have to drink it.
 
There is a lot of ways this could go but not knowing exactly her motive until it happens I say drink a few or not at all. The main thing is to make sure you go regardless.


Oh ....yeah... tell her you lost your wallet on the way over to the bar.
 
You know.....I think if you gotta ask what to do with a chick on an internet forum, maybe you just oughtta stay home with the hand lotion.
 
"Getting a drink" is a social norm. The first thing I would look for...is she a big drinker, how does she act while drinking. After all...She didn't asked if you want to smoke a rock.
 
Your from the middle of the US go drink a half dozen or more beers or order a glass of water what's the difference?
 
scenario #1 You show up and over analyze her motives and go into your moral and ethical dissertation about drinking. She will be out of there. Rosey Palm and lotion for you.

scenario # You show up you order a seltzer with lime or whatever, Smile act like a confident gentleman. If she asks why you are not drinking Smile shake your head and Say something like I know i must seem crazy but i have tried drinking and I just don't like the taste of it, I can't figure out why. (No ethical conversation) This will get her talking, Now you need to gently slide the topic of conversation to her interests, and bust on her and on yourself ever so slightly. You need to make her laugh. Again Your Goal for this meeting is to make her laugh.

Keep it light friendly and a little flirty.

If you don't believe me talk to cuda chic.

My challenge for you is to pull this off, I don't think you will, but I love rooting for the underdog.
 
Meet her. Say,
"I'm buying not drinking. I plan to drive you home."
 
Here what I'd do, since I'm not a big drinker either. I'd pick a place to meet her that has some sort of activity you can do there. Play darts, shoot pool, trivia game, shuffleboard, bowling or whatever. That way you can let her order her drink first, then order what you want. Whatever it is a coke 7up or even alcohol. Then you can go & play something & it also helps to have something to do since it take the weight off of small talk & will pass the time so you don't sit there worrying about what you have to drink or not drink. It also helps to break the ice. Let the night take care of itself. If it's a bad date you can move on & forget about it. Bad dates are what makes good ones that much better.
 
All this dating talk reminds me of a girl a freind wanted me to hook up with. I think I was just turned 21 or so. She was about 19.
So I had to run out to get some things for the party & she offered to go with me. Along the way she pulls out a cigarette & puts it in her mouth & says "can I smoke in here?" I said "I'd rather you didn't I just cleaned the car & I don't want it to smell like smoke." She said "OK" rather uncomfortably & a minute later says " how about I just roll down the window & let it out that way." & then lights the thing up & starts smoking. We get the things we needed & get back in the car & on the way back I farted! Quite loud & impressively I might add! She says "That's rude! It smells Disgusting You made the car stink!" So I said back to her.."How about you just roll down the window & let it out then!" Never heard from her again.:fart: :finga:
 
67Baccaruda said:
scenario #1 You show up and over analyze her motives and go into your moral and ethical dissertation about drinking. She will be out of there. Rosey Palm and lotion for you.

scenario #2 You show up you order a seltzer with lime or whatever, Smile act like a confident gentleman. If she asks why you are not drinking Smile shake your head and Say something like I know i must seem crazy but i have tried drinking and I just don't like the taste of it, I can't figure out why. .
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You could also tell her that you can't drink because you are on antibiotics for a "social infection"... :D :joker:
 
Lonewolf3165 said:
All this dating talk reminds me of a girl a freind wanted me to hook up with. I think I was just turned 21 or so. She was about 19.
So I had to run out to get some things for the party & she offered to go with me. Along the way she pulls out a cigarette & puts it in her mouth & says "can I smoke in here?" I said "I'd rather you didn't I just cleaned the car & I don't want it to smell like smoke." She said "OK" rather uncomfortably & a minute later says " how about I just roll down the window & let it out that way." & then lights the thing up & starts smoking. We get the things we needed & get back in the car & on the way back I farted! Quite loud & impressively I might add! She says "That's rude! It smells Disgusting You made the car stink!" So I said back to her.."How about you just roll down the window & let it out then!" Never heard from her again.:fart: :finga:
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Priceless....
 
I wouldn't be.too concerned about her wanting to meet for drinks. Just because she wats to meet in a bar doesn't mean that she's got a drinking problem. My wife willask friends to meet for drinks and order iced tea! She isn't much of a drinker, one drink.and she's got a light head LOL. Anyway give her a chance you might be missing out on a great girl andit's hard to find one that's into cars.Ohand by thevway , I found my wife ten years ago on the online dating site, it' definately theway to go.

Good Luck
 
On second thought, I think you need to start one more thread about it. Yeah, that's it.
 
67Baccaruda said:
scenario #1 You show up and over analyze her motives and go into your moral and ethical dissertation about drinking. She will be out of there. Rosey Palm and lotion for you.

scenario # You show up you order a seltzer with lime or whatever, Smile act like a confident gentleman. If she asks why you are not drinking Smile shake your head and Say something like I know i must seem crazy but i have tried drinking and I just don't like the taste of it, I can't figure out why. (No ethical conversation) This will get her talking, Now you need to gently slide the topic of conversation to her interests, and bust on her and on yourself ever so slightly. You need to make her laugh. Again Your Goal for this meeting is to make her laugh.

Keep it light friendly and a little flirty.

If you don't believe me talk to cuda chic.

My challenge for you is to pull this off, I don't think you will, but I love rooting for the underdog.
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I read the opener and all the replies.

All I can rightfully contribute is that you're the same guy who fell in lust with some Chevy chick who worked at Lowe's, used three pages of bandwidth asking for everybody's input and suggestions on snagging her for yourself, and then never even asked her out.

Making her laugh??? I have every confidence that it won't be a problem for you at all.
 
I read the opener and all the replies.

All I can rightfully contribute is that you're the same guy who fell in lust with some Chevy chick who worked at Lowe's, used three pages of bandwidth asking for everybody's input and suggestions on snagging her for yourself, and then never even asked her out.

Making her laugh??? I have every confidence that it won't be a problem for you at all.[/QUOTE]


Hi Leanna,

Oh man this is the same guy. I didn't think to check. This poor guy is never going to get any.

Lost cause

Brian out
 
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