Mary - Lots of prayers and best wishes to both the Grumpus, you, and the kids for a quick recovery and return to health. You guys are a fair distance from SoCal, but tell Grumpus he better be done with smoking and anything else that that's bad for his health, he better be minding both the doctors and your instructions or me and a bunch of other FABO members will be on his doorstep to kick his butt - and tell him I'll do it while standing on my new knee (Grump and I had our knee surgeries earlier this year about the same time and corresponded via FABO about the recovery process)!
This heart attack was a serious warning that it's time to change. Remind him he has a responsibility to both you and the boys to be around for as long as possible and the cigarettes are robbing all of you of his future time.
I know I come across very strong on cigarettes but I lost my father, my grandfather, and too many other family and friends to cigarettes.
Again, our prayers and best wishes for a quick and complete healing process.
Ken (ocdart)