Gurl problem's need help!

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I would say ask her out, if she turns you down move on. Like I tell my son, If it has tires or tits it is going ot give you problems, but at least the one with the tires you can fix.
 
Spend a nickle, cover your pickle... and
If it has tires or tits it is going to give you problems

The new stuff I learned today!!:cheers:
 

I say tell her to hit the road. Look young man, right now your hormones and dick are trying to make all the decisions for you but you can't let them rule your life. This girl has already proven that she can't be trusted or deal with a actual relationship, that's painfully obvious. Stay the hell away from her and "do not" sink to her level when it comes to breaking up. I'll tell you a little secret, it you're smart and gently break things off with this girl you'll get a hell of a lot more respect from the other ladies that see this and they'll think you're an alright guy. Any relationship that has a chance of flourishing starts with respect and trust from both partners first. Ask yourself a simple question, do you repect and trust this girl, if the answer is no as it sounds it should be then your options are limited to only one, skid her down the road but gently.
Once you've meant the women that you both trust and respect the "HOT SWEATY MONKEY SEX" will be soon to follow.

This is the same thing I told my son who couldn't chose the right partner for himself. Well guess what, at age 22 he's now engaged to a real nice girl, a looker to, who was the top of her graduating class and is working as a computer system analyst, maybe the old man new what he was talking about after all.

Remember TRUST AND RESPECT, it's worked for me and the lady I've been married to for 25 yrs.

Terry
 
I too have to agree with the majority.

Roll On, forget her.

The real concern is YOU.

Girls are the easiest thing in the world to understand and co-exist with.
If one does not fit your personality somewhere along your path, Press On, a better one is right around the corner.

I found my wife 6 years after high school....we are coming up on our 7th Anniversary.

There are good women out there who will cooperate with all sorts of lifestyles and hobbies and passions if they can ensure that their needs are met and they enjoy the same things as their men.

You have the absolute RIGHT to be yourself and not change or cater to a womans' ideas/dreams of how a Man should be.....cause we all have ideas of how a Woman Should Be.

Move on, and remember Blondes are Hot, but brunettes have more fun!
 
Nobody said you couldn't play the field and thats what youj should do....keep it light, should you get blessed enough to be "alone" with a girl....watch out! that stuff makes you stupid in a heartbeat! see the guys around school up their girlfriends asses in a bad way? always carrying books or being touchy feely and totally blowing their friends off? it's called pussywhipped and you can say that it won't happen to you but it will! I'm warning you now, don't get attached . it wont be the last girl you'll ever get naked in the same room with.you are young and are starting the greatest few years of your young life...DO NOT TAKE LOVE SERIOUSLY RIGHT NOW!!! highschool will be over before you know it and you will never have these great years back......so use protection and don't get tied to one girl., especially that one.....
 
You've kept an open mind about this girl and your brains have fallen out, lol. Sorry couldn't resist when I read your signature on your post. Seriously if you had to apologize to stop the fighting while you didn't really do anything wrong its time to forget about her, with that kind of a start to a relationship your lookin for headaches for yourself. If your into gettin hooked up with a girl it shouldn't be on those terms. At your young age take 69 valiant kids advice and hangout with your buds, you can do that and still flirt with the girls. It maybe tough to do but don't let being a guy whose a virgin be a monkey on your back....that will lead you into some bad decisions stand your ground like it sounds you are on that front.
 
Listen to these guys, this girl, and girls in general are over rated. ( FOR NOW ) Save your money and the headache.Have fun with your buddies and enjoy High School. There will always be another one looking for the things you have to offer later on.....



If you want to get get rid of her for good though, Go out with her best friend!!!!! :finga:
 
Don't get in a hurry, take your time find the right one, don't settle for a pain in the *** one, the right one is out there.

I didn't get married until I was 42, lets see:

She's good looking
She's a nurse
She's a huge football and baseball fan
She's a Nascar fan
She found my Duster for sale near her parents house
She thinks comfortable clothes are better than trendy ones
She thinks high maintenance woman are strange
We got married in Vegas by Elvis
She's fun

Most important, she's mine....yes I'm bragging ;)

Find the right one and you'll be a happy man, settle for the wrong one and you'll be miserible!
 
Boy, if you can inject common sense into the mix with raging hormones, you will be ten steps ahead of most young men your age.

For instance, when i was in 11'th grade, before I started dating my future wife, I was sorta dating this girl who my buddy and his girlfriend introduced me to.

She was very pretty, a little chunky, but held it really well and had great curves, pretty looks and a sweet personality.
She did not go to our school so i did not know much about her.

We went on a few double dates together.

Now here's the part that most guys would think I'm nuts.....

We went to her house one night with my buddy and his girlfriend while her parents were away for the weekend.

The plan was to hang out.

My buddy went into a bedroom with his girlfriend and this girl asked me to come up to her room to show me around.

After about five minutes, she turned out the light and went ionto the bathroom, then I heard her jump on the bed.

The light turned on and she was totally naked and asked me to jump into bed with her.

Sorry guys, but I had to pass.

If I were thinking with my *****, I would have dove right in, but common sense was able to override my hormones, and in an instant i had all these thoughts going through my head like: "If she is this easy, who else has she done this with?"
"She seems a little too comfortable with this type of behavior."
"I have no protection, what if she gets pregnant, I'm screwed."
"She may already be pregnant and she's just trying to hook me in."
"What if she's got STD's?"

Sorry, I walked out, and told her I don't know her well enough.

Needless to say, she got really pissed off and made a big dramatic deal about it to her girlfriend and then had my buddy come outside and try to talk me into having sex with her, and he was asking me questions like "Dude, she wants you, what's the matter?"

I just told them all I was not ready to do that and they all thought I was crazy.

Oh, well, I didn't care, and I left and walked home.

I talked to my buddy the next day and explained why i did not do it, and he sortof understood, but still thought I was goofy for not jumping on that hot babe.

I decided not to date her anymore and I wrote her a letter why I did not do what she wanted, and she was pretty hurt for a while but got over it soon enough.

Word sorta got around my inner circle of friends of what I did NOT do, and this really impressed a couple girls, one of them especially.....guess who????

So guys, It really pays to have morals and standards even if your knucklehead, over sexed buddies think you are a little strange for not jumping at the first easy opportunity that comes your way.

Strange thing is that nothing I did that night had anything to do with parental influence.
My Mom never talked to me about sex, and my Dad was not around and never gave me any sex advice either, so all those decisions I made were on pure instinct, and I'm glad I made the choice I made because it just so happened that the girl I turned down ended up getting pregnant by a senior and she immediately broke up with him and swore to make his life miserable.
Then he beat her up and made her get an abortion all without her parents knowing anything.

Sometimes it pays to be a boyscout.
 
I'm only going to post on this once. Failure to comply with the following advice by the 2 below, (which is the very best advice so far besides wearing a condom when you get a girl.) will only mean to me your a ***** yourself and looking to get run over by chicks all over the world to just prove your a door mat or less than just to get a possible look at the snatch they have.

Why do I write so bluntly, seen it to many times. Lost very best freinds to girls when it should have been a gain in freinds. Not find an enemy who stomps on the jewels of a freind.

Get over it, get a job or a degree than a job. Girls can come later after you have taken care of yourself. You can't take care of anyone else unless you can take care of yourself.

Believe this, once you have money, the girls will come running. Then you just gotta figure out which one is the right one. :)

dont waste your time.
find a better lookin one.


The above to quotes are dead nuts on and should not be ignored. Get over her, it's bull ****. If she liked you, you would more likely not be a virgin at this time but more likely not even posting you tales of woe here. You'd probably be out at breakfest eyes goggling together.

Stop playing baby games and step up a notch beyond teenagerhood. Or actually, since the case is with a baby girl.........

Stop posting your stupid cry baby *** whining problems. This is how you get beyond them.

Make a list of a what a great girl freind is and call it a prerequesite. I made mine. Looks something like;

Not a ***** on her period, in fact, I don't wanna know about it. Believe me, I feel for the women, but I don't wanna be made victum to your pain. Or hear about sexist crap when it's that time of the month. If it is that fuckin bad, have an operation and have it taken out. LEave me alone. Frak off!

Understands that I have a love afair with a car. Sometimes I have afairs on my cars with another car. Sometimes I have a bimbo on the side called a car. I'll even tell her, (And did by the way) the car will be more important than you sometimes, get over it. It's just a car.

I'm out with the boys doing stupid boy things. Do not attempt to get inbetween the steam rollers, rollin. You'll just get crushed. And it won't be my fault.

TRUST!!!!!!
Don't screw with the girls. You think you have problems now?! LOL, just wiat till they get real pissed. The I hate club is a joke compared to what they'll do to you later in life. They talk and talk and talk among themselfs. It spreads like a Flu. You'll be lucky to get a kiss.

I've juggled 3 girl freinds at once. It aint worth it. I thought it would be and could do it. Well, triple the pleasure also comes at triple the price and the headache is not triple, because it's triple X's 3.

I said screw'em and went with one, just one. It's alot easier and cheaper.

Which brings me to.............

It's my freakin money, I'll spend on the car if I feel like it.

Girls can come and go. Get one that likes cars, likes you for you and is easy going and fun lovin. (AKA likes to do stuff.)

Now go make a list, get off the bowl or crap.

(Marines wasn't a bad idea ethier. I got a family full of 'em.)
 
Well i know your only trying to give advice but dont be a total dick about it im not whining abotu ym stupid feelings so, yes and if it is so bad why comment on it why not just read and stroll on by? all these other nice men have helped me alot. so all im sayin as you may be blunt your still being a total dick about it. (plus ima virgin by choice thank you very much!)
 
If someone's response strikes you as harsh, it probably stems from their frustration. The general consensus is to ignore this chick and find something more constructive to do with your energy. I'd hazard a guess that almost everyone here has been through the same crap. It's a normal part of being that age. The advice to move on has merit.

Rather than grumble about the issue, study it. Look for patterns. Pick it apart systematically and see what makes it work. The underlying principles are really not so different from troubleshooting mechanical issues.

There will be good times and not-so-good times. A big part of life is making mistakes. They are possibly the most powerful learning tool available. The important thing to keep in mind is to take a lesson from them and avoid making those same mistakes.

If you let her get inside your head, she wins. Do what you know is right and don't worry about what peers will think of it. Anything that doesn't further a good cause is cast aside. Screw it. In a few years, it won't matter. In the meantime, it may do some good to snag a copy of 'The Tao of Jeet Kune Do' and really read it. Good stuff. It's loaded with some really useful concepts.

One more thing. Stash this somewhere, because it will make sense later: A person's character is defined by their actions when they think nobody's watching.

*reduces soapbox to a heap of splinters*
 
TYler you need to do what i told you and this is the last time i am going to tell you. DAD04-01-2008 08:15 PM
woops sorry guys i did not know that my son was still loged on.thanks Mopar65
 
Well i know your only trying to give advice but dont be a total dick about it im not whining abotu ym stupid feelings so, yes and if it is so bad why comment on it why not just read and stroll on by? all these other nice men have helped me alot. so all im sayin as you may be blunt your still being a total dick about it. (plus ima virgin by choice thank you very much!)

Good, good, yell at me. It's OK. I'm not a total DICK ABOUT IT, BUT I am blunt to the point of pain. And, And! for the very reason you have done, get mad and do something positive, stand up for yourself, defend yourself and stop taking silly crap.

Take what I have said serious. Listen to Dad. Us old folk are not as stupid as you think. We have been there and done that, seen that and know how to get around that of which makes life crappy.


Or you could just ignore us old farts as burnt out mindless dopes and continue to provided some small entertainment.

( NO SHAME IN BEING A VIRGIN! THERES PLENTY OF TIME LATER. )
 
gotta chime in on this one....
i'm 34 but spent most of my twenties (10 years to be exact) with the WRONG girl. wasn't happy for most of it but didn't have the cojones to break it off, we were living together for most of that time so i didn't want to put her out on the street. helped her through school and paid most of the bills. got married after 10 years of co-habitation then divorced THREE MONTHS later. two years after that mess, i realize that she did me a huge favor by asking for the divorce cause i didn't realize how UNHAPPY i was until she was gone and i got a taste of freedom. now i'm back in the game and i'm reading this post and laughing to myself cause i've seen that no matter what age, women all have the same problems. dated a few and it never seems to work out BUT.........i treated them all with kindness and respect and honesty and now, in two years i've gained three new best friends that always have my back and are a lot of fun to go out with cause even though i'm not "with" any of them, i still look like THE MAN cause i'm out with three beautiful babes. actually i use my girl friends to screen my girlfriends. any girl that i date now has to meet my "panel of judges" and get the nod of approval from a majority before i'll think about getting serious. the best part is all the girl friends, from hanging out with me, love MOPARS!!! so i must be doing something right haha!
don't know if i had a point to this ramble, oh yeah....listen to the advice given by everyone here... maybe back in the 60's/70's/even the 80's you could party your education away and still get by, well, NOT ANYMORE. with the country and economy and future in such a sad state, you can't put aside a good education to make for better oppurtunities down the line. girls are secondary to making a way for yourself in this world.
my other piece of advice revolves around my experiences -- if you are LOOKING for someone you will never find them. when you STOP looking then they will come along. this is how it ALWAYS works for me...

listen kid, your a step ahead already, you have a mopar. give the girls another year or two and the hard work and pride you have in your car will catch their eye cause they will see that you are someone that has goals and can accomplish them, and since its not a rice bucket, they will see that you are not afraid to be different. plus you will have mechanic experience so when you are talking to the girls they will already know that you are "good with your hands" and you can even offer to "check their oil", give them a "lube job" or even a "flush and fill" if you know what i mean ;)

-tim
 
woops sorry guys i did not know that my son was still loged on.thanks Mopar65

That's all right Mopar65. Lay down the law! Most often a father's advice (even if it is not realized by the child at the time) is better than everyone elses put together and again, goes unheeded by youth. No one knows him better than you (and of course, the little Mrs.). Just keep on laying it down and telling him like it is.
 
It all depends on whether or not you want money to work on your dart or anything else for that matter
 
man, this kid is like what 15? 16?
I'm only 16 and I already know that if a girl is too high maintaince/bitchy.
I'm not gonna date her.
End of story.

Listen Mopardart72, If youre not gonna listen to these guys
(Which you should by the way cause theyre all(for the most part) giving good advice)
at least listen to me because I'm your peer and I understand whats going on and understand you on a different level than the older guys do.

Look basically, if she's already playing mindgames with you and you're not even dating her.......don't date her! she shouldnt even be playing mind games if you were dating her.

So It's as simple as that, don't gimme that "oh but I still like her" B/S because the truth is that if she tried to get some guy friends to come beat you up and is doing all these rediculious things that teenage girls love to do for some reason, she really probably doesn't like you, and I dont understand how you could have feelings for someone that would pull some bullshit like that.

I'm telling you man, just let stuff happen don't be all like "oh man i want a girlfriend sooooo bad!" and I'm not saying you're doing that right now, I'm just letting you know......don't do it, cause it's a waste of time and energy.

Do something productive instead of worring about this stupid girl, get a job and save some money to get a new rear end or tranny or something, anything! Then do some work on your car with your old man.
Hell, I'd love to be able to do that but my dad's always driven Chevy's hahah (I'm converting him to Mopar though).

So what im saying in a nutshell is...forget about her.
 
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