This is StansBlue72's Daughter....

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MelanieZ

In Memory Of STANSBLUE72
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Hi everybody. I Hope this is OK to post here. My name is Melanie, and my dad is a member here... StansBlue72. He has been a member here for sometime, and often talks highly of all of you, saying what a great group of people you are. He does not know that I am posting this, but wanted to reach out to all of you.

As you all probably know my dad has been fighting cancer for a long time now. He is on his 3rd round of Non Hodgkin Lymphoma, he had a stem cell transplant early 2014 with his own cells, and a few short months later the cancer was back. He has continued to fight it, but the cancer has once again spread. His most recent scan has shown it to be in his ankle, shins, knees, a large mass growing in his stomach, and behind his right eye. We just yesterday moved back to Seattle to stay in the Pete Gross cancer housing while he begins treatment yet again at the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance.

On Wednesday February 18th my mom, my dads wife of 40 years had a stroke, and she has been in the hospital since. She has lost feeling in the left side of her body and the eyesight in her left eye. She is hopefully going to be released from the hospital on Saturday. She won't yet be able to go home and she will have to temporarily move here in Seattle with my Dad and I, and I will be taking care of both of them. I am also the mother of 4 young kids (15,14,11,4) and my husband (also a member here but he rarely posts) has taken on a great deal of stress doing both his job, and my job with the kids so I can be here to take care of my parents. My parents are both amazing people and I am happy to be able to be here for them.

My dad is going to put up a good fight, and hopefully this time he kicks this cancers butt. But, the expenses and stress are building up. Just to stay in this small cancer housing apartment it costs $2980 a month, and he is still having to keep his house at home paid for and running while he is here. Now with my mom's stroke the medical bills between the two of them are building up, as are the worries about how everything can possibly get paid for. To heal they both need to stop worrying so much about money and focus on getting better, but thats hard to do when every day a new expense pops up.

This is where I come to ask for your help. Don't feel obligated to help but for those of you who want to do something, Please consider visiting this page:

http://www.youcaring.com/medical-fundraiser/support-for-stan/209022?utm_source=widget

If you prefer to donate directly via Paypal that is an option also, just let me know and I can let you know where to send.

If you wish to follow his updates, I keep a blog updated here:

http://www.stanscancerblog.com

This is a very tough time for my family as I am sure you can all imagine. If you can't help with donations please at least keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Thanks so much!
 
Hi Melanie, I'm so sorry to read about the hardship your family is experiencing. Your Dad Stan has been a great contributing member here for many years....

Let me find something to donate for an auction to help :thumbup: Stay strong!!
 
Let me get my hart settled a bit Melanie, I will be back for this great man and member tomorrow .
 
Melanie, please pass Kitty's and my love to Stan and to you and all of the family. We will continue to pray for all of you.

Rob
 

Melanie, I added to the fund through the youcaring link. My prayers will continue for you whole family, Joe
 
All I can say to you right now Melanie is, you're a absolute doll. I can't imagine what you guys are going thru taking care of Dad...& Mom.

I so wish I could help out monetarily, but we still haven't recovered from Linda's lung cancer bill's the last few years. Our prayers will continue going out to all of you, and for a complete recovery for Dad...And now, Mom.
 
Thank you Melanie for bringing this to us, FABO will be honored to help Stan kick cancer's butt. Prayers for your Dad and your Mom as well as donations.
 
Wow just seen this, I must talk about FABO to much! My first reaction is to say That's okay we can get by with out help, but after four years of this and now the added cost of Jeans recovery it's becoming obvious to me that some help and prayers should be gladly accepted.
this really brings out my emotions so I need to take a little break. Thank you!
 
Stan, I lost my dad to Lymphoma back in 06. Please kick it's *** for me and dad, it would be nice to see someone beat it...
 
Just saw this post this morning myself. Stan, I know from your previous posts that you and the wife were having health issues. Sue and I have been Praying for you and your family and will continue to do so. Donation sent also. Keep your head up Buddy.
 
I will keep your family in my prayers. Don't have a lot but will send what I can thru pay pal.
 
I can't thank you all enough. Thank you for the donations, prays and well wishes received so far!
 
Let me find something to donate for an auction to help :thumbup: Stay strong!!

I just got this picture signed in person by Bob Riggle last weekend at a local show. I'll look tomorrow for a suitable frame & would like to put it up for auction to help our member Stan.

It's 8 1/2" X 11" and the signature is authentic....I was there :)
 

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I would be willing to start an auction/benefit thread for a place to post items to benefit the family....Stan is a great member here and it would be great if we can help out :glasses7:

Prayers sent for all and thanks Melanie for posting this and hang in there, your parents will be better soon!
 
yea ...mr. Stan sir is a great member and does outstanding work. I like that the recipient is a member of the mopar family and actual member of FABO.

I have a HEMI cuda R/c and I will look for some other stuff for the benefit auction
 

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Melanie, A couple of members have asked for a paypal address to help out. Could you post 1 or PM it to me or Keith please.


I would be willing to start an auction/benefit thread for a place to post items to benefit the family....Stan is a great member here and it would be great if we can help out :glasses7:

Prayers sent for all and thanks Melanie for posting this and hang in there, your parents will be better soon!

Keith, If you would get that going, that would be awesome!! Thank You
 
I too just read this thread Melanie. Damn cancer! Our prayers go out to you all for healing, recovery, and strength. I would like to add a few bucks to the kitty to help out through paypal. toolmanmike
 
Melanie, A couple of members have asked for a paypal address to help out. Could you post 1 or PM it to me or Keith please.




Keith, If you would get that going, that would be awesome!! Thank You

I would be happy to dot that, I will get it going tomorrow. I have some items I can toss in too. I will send a PM to the OP to see if its PM and we'll go from there!
 
I would be happy to dot that, I will get it going tomorrow. I have some items I can toss in too. I will send a PM to the OP to see if its PM and we'll go from there!

Ok, have your people call their people and do lunch.... :glasses7:
 
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